Do you sacrifice degrees of your own happiness, comfort or time to ensure that your husband, wife or partner is happy, calm and looked after?
Do you put other people's wants and needs before your own and feel that it is your role to self sacrifice so that others may thrive?
Do you never expect to receive praise, compliments or even a thank you for your sacrifices? And when you are told that you are not good enough in some way, you always believe that you are not?
If this describes you, then consider that your personality and sense of duty / responsibility in caring for others identifies you as a Rescuer. You may also be a Healer which means double trouble,
I was told once that I had rescued the wrong stray dog and it was a truth . One that I had not seen because I was so busy sacrificing and rescuing that I did not consider it was my personality that placed me in a position of such vulnerability - where the stray dog was in a position to maul me.
I sat with a client recently who said they had tried to commit suicide twice and were desperate. That they wanted to die. They connected with Spirit and were shown the bigger picture. They came to realise that they were a Rescuer. That they were not useless, wrong, pathetic, unworthy or stupid as they had been told repeatedly by their partner and were shown various ways to step out of emotion so as to start to regain control over their lives.
The journey to reclaiming their life has commenced. There will be many little steps along the way but each step will take them further and further away from the dark and their desperation. They found a will to live and set their intent to take action.
When we recognise the energy of who we be and accept it, we can then understand how and why circumstances develop so that we can then make a conscious decision to change.
There are lessons that we each have set for ourselves so patterns may never be repeated. Some are extremely hard lessons because we may not have learned our lessons the first time....so we continue to create opportunities to learn the lessons in order to move forward.
There is much that Spirit can teach you as you navigate your plan and path.
Please note that whenever you are feeling a sense of hopelessness or overwhelming sadness, it is always appropriate to consult your Doctor,
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