"All of my decisions are perfect for my purpose" .
What then is your purpose?
To thrive or to struggle?
There is nothing amiss in the decisions you make, it is your inner voice that determines whether those decisions bring suffering or abundance.
When you sit in abundance, you create more abundance for that is where you are focussing your energy.
When you sit in lack, you create more lack.
Choose to step our of any negativity, of thinking about disaster or chaos or potential loss and claim what it is you are seeking to create.
Focus on receiving abundance and success and remind yourself every day that you ARE in abundance, you ARE successful so that you are working with the energy in order to manifest it.
Changing the perception of circumstances surrounding you is often the catalyst to changing your energy and thus moving from negative to positive.
When we are feeling stressed in our lives it is often recommended by professionals that we "meditate", that we adopt "mindfulness practices" so as to learn to calm nerves and anxiety, moderate breathing, focus energy and release stress.
I agree. Meditation is effective in achieving all of these things and there are many circumstances that I personally have been able to endure if not survive due to practicing meditation.
I was taught by Spirit how to ensure that when I go into a meditation, I have a safe and protected sacred space and that I will alway return and not float away or be vulnerable to negative energies seeking to do harm. I have been given steps, or protocols that I was informed I needed to follow absolutely in order to create and maintain this protected space. I worked with Helen, a renowned Channel of JTB to be guided into and out of remarkable meditations until I was confident that I was doing things "correctly".
I now work with clients to teach them these simple and effective steps and protocols.
Evidence of the importance of protection can be illustrated through a recent situation where I was contacted for assistance. It appeared that a negative entity had stepped into the body of a lady who was "stressed" and had decided to try "meditation" to alleviate it.
When she came out of the meditation she was seemingly mad. She wailed and wailed, deep and harrowingly. She had not slept for three days. She allowed her dogs to attack her sheep, she asked to be taken to the beach so as to be "clean", she asked to take her animals to the beach so they could be drowned.
Such a sudden change in behaviour is immensely disturbing for family and her brother called seeking assistance. He did not know what was occurring and although I could not assist, I was able to make a referral.
This is a situation where she was not protected and her energy field was wide open.
People are being guided to mediate without being given tools to protect themselves appropriately. Learn how to protect your energy fields and form a safe space.
I have created a little handbook with the simple steps given by Spirit which is available for purchase. I have also developed a short course with a guided meditation.
Whether you utilise the materials that I have created or not, do ensure that you learn how to protect your energy fields.
Some of us have disorders, experiencing them in vary degrees which affect the auditory, processing and spatial awareness functions of our brains.
Often children exhibiting these disorders are described as the "Out of Sync Kids". They often can't catch a ball, they run into things, are clumsy, cannot block out any noise, cannot copy from whiteboards or do maths. They are predominantly considered dumb and rude and placed at the back of the classroom out of the way.
Medical professionals do not appear to have answers and after speaking with Spirit about a particular child, I was informed that this child has SPD because his energy field is "wide open".
Hard to believe that such complex neurological conditions can be viewed from a perspective of "energy".
But they can.
A process has been incorporated to work along side Occupational Therapy and body brushing etc to protect the energy field of this child.
The child is being taught to breath correctly, to self calm, to meditate and to see himself sitting within a big bubble which he fills with a colour of his choice and around his bubble he place a blue colour. He is being taught to release energy he has absorbed throughout the day and to "bubble up" every morning and evening.
He is being taught to take control over what is occurring when he is constantly out of control.
He is being taught to stop himself from falling into helplessness and self criticism, of believing he is useless and to step into a sense of control where he can regulate his focus, his breathing, where he can see the colour in his bubble and calm.
He will often find a quiet place within the school yard to sit in meditation and inside his bubble so that he can recharge. His teachers allow him to sit in their tearoom so that he can do this whenever he needs to.
Any techniques that enable a child or an adult to be in control of their consciousness when they have so little control over their environment, is positive.
Can you see how this simple process can be applied positively for those suffering from anxiety and depression?
Never forget to protect your energy fields. No matter your dis- ease, alway invoke protection.
When you are setting your intent and creating in your life that which you seek, or creating your financial future, it is essential that you do not ATTACH to what APPEARS to be occurring, that you focus consistently on the SIGNIFICANCE of what you are creating, not the appearance of how that creation may be or is being affected.
When you have set your intent, do not start doubting your ability to accomplish because the moment you begin to doubt your ability to accomplish, you weaken the intent that you are creating.
When you claim your intent, you claim your right to be who and what you chose to be beyond the attitudes, opinions or judgements of any other individual.
You claim your right to create that which you want to accomplish beyond the circumstances, marketplace, economic conditions or the opinions of experts.
You sit in your knowing that nothing will divert you from what you are achieving. Do not attach to negative comments or negative economic figures and forecasts, see only the significance of that which you are creating.
Therefore firstly, it is to set your intent.
You say for example in regards to creating your financial future and security, "Despite any financial uncertainty, whatever is required for me, I will have easily".
That is the first thing because that is not a conditional intent. You are setting the intent that whatever comes to you, comes to you easily and in perfect time and space.
Creating is entirely dependant on the commitment you have to holding the energy of your intent strongly.
If the attention is allowed to waiver, it affects the outcome.
You have to be very clear when you are setting your intent. That this is the situation you are seeking.
Be very CLEAR about it.
Believe it, live it and do not be deflected by any negativity that surrounds you from people or the news.
Inventors and Scientists do not attach to the APPEARANCE of what others say, they see only the significance of their intent to achieve that which they seek to accomplish.
Successful business people do not attach to negativity even when it appears completely logical. Or when they are refused funding for their projects or inventions, when they are working within the space of the unknown and untested, and repeatedly told what they are doing will never work - they hold onto their intent of what they are accomplishing and do not allow their energy to be distracted or diminished. The hold on to their self belief regardless.
Set an intent.
Be very clear about it.
Say every day that whatever you require comes to your easily and in right time and space.
Imagine it occurring.
Know that you are capable of accomplishing it in you heart.
Be ready to feel an energetic shift occur within you.
Many people speak with Spirit to gain an insight into love.
Whether it be the love for a partner that they are yet to connect with or babies that are waiting to be born, it is their urge and want to share love, to give love that leads them to Spirit. To speak openly without fear, of their desires and wishes.
Many have also been through divorce, break up or loss and are starting to look towards the future in the search of happiness and peace.
The conversations are always deep and heart felt for loving another means stepping into vulnerability.
Before anyone can step forward to meet the love that is waiting, they need to be open to it and all that it brings.
To say that "I am ready" mentally, does not in any way mean that your heart is ready, or open or even willing to participate!
When seeking to connect with the essence of the love that awaits, it is for you to step into your Heart, without fear or concern, to set your intent and to be open to accepting love.
Many people are happy to give love and not receive it from others because they believe they are then protected from hurt and pain. That is an illusion.
Do not hope that love with cross your path, know that it will and set your intent that it shall.
Visualise the connection, the happiness and ask for it NOW.
I'd like to discuss the theme of "self sacrifice" as it runs amongst many, particularly women.
If you sacrifice yourself for another, and by sacrifice I mean 'giving up something valued for the sake of another', you are a victim of the belief systems of self sacrifice.
You become a victim of this believe system and therefore disempower yourself.
A victim says 'it's not fair".
A victim is continually trying to make reparation.
A victim makes everyone else powerful and places themselves at the mercy of them.
This is not compatible with "receiving".
Whilst ever you feel it is your responsibility or duty to put the wants and needs of another or others ahead of your own, you disempower yourself. You hand your power and self determination over to them.
Whilst ever you believe you have to make reparations for something you did, never forgiving yourself, you are a victim. Helpless and at the mercy of those you gifted your power to.
Victimhood is a form of self punishment.
Victimhood says "I am helpless, I am hopeless, I cannot change things."
At what time, in this voyage through life, do you stop and accept that whatever went wrong, is what it is and let it go?
At what time do you say it is not my responsibility to support others to the detriment to myself?
At what point, do you say "I matter"?
Some of us are living our lives purely to make others lives more comfortable or happy or safe or perfect.
We never stop to think about our own happiness, well-being, success, adventure or joy.
Does this self sacrifice earn respect or love?
Do these people you hand your power to show their gratitude to you or do they simply expect that you shall continue placing them first and accommodating all of their needs and wants above your own?
Would they change their lives to come to your aid if you were in need?
Fear often keeps us in this pattern of self sacrifice.
Fear and self sacrifice can create dis - ease within the body.
Many of us who are in this pattern are here in this life to break it. To break the pattern of self sacrifice.
To do so, one needs to acknowledge that this is in fact the situation, then accept is as so in order to enable change.
To those who are sacrificing themselves, you can change if you acknowledge that this is a pattern and if you are willing to hand back the responsibility of other lives to them and allow them to look after themselves. It is a gift because when you carry the burden, when you take away the responsibilities of others and make them dependent upon you, you are incurring Karma.
It is not your role to carry others in their lives, although often they are happy for you to do so.
It is for you to be strong enough to hand back their responsibilities to them so that they may learn their lessons.
We are not here on this earth to live a life of sacrifice for another.
We are here to live our lives to the best of our abilities in Joy, to learn our lessons, fulfil our plan and complete our Voyage successfully.
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